Many people on Mumsnet are walking a sponsored mile with their babies in memory of a little  two-year-old girl called Maude who went for her afternoon nap and died a victim of SIDS. Her mum is a prolific poster on Mumsnet and she is fully backing the campaign, which will raise money for Cot Death charities. The website is here, and anyone who wishes to join in or to make a donation would be doing A Good Thing.

Have just realised that about twenty listings for finger food have disappeared as we've obviously run out of space in the folder... will try to sort it later and will check if other folders have also been affected. Would have been nice if an alert had come up to warn me, huh? Sorry about this...

Sorry about this, I'm operating between about four laptops at the moment and I've just realised I've deleted all my BLW emails between the end of November and now. Yes, that's right Vanilla, even the ones from tonight. I am only slightly an idiot... it's really mostly Dell's fault. Don't buy a laptop from them, please.

So could everyone who sent photos and recipes please, please re-send them? Sorry for the inconvenience, truly.

Apologies first, I have not intended to be the silent partner in the whole blog thing but my internet connection has been dead since before Christmas and I have just literally had time to fix it – i.e. spent a couple for hours on the phone to India, interestingly enough one of their quick fix questions was to ask if had a Christmas tree lights on! Embarrassingly enough my last bill had bounced and the lack of internet connection may have not been unrelated.

 

Boomer being the junior member of the blwing team turned one a couple of weeks after Babybear.  This coincided with stopping breastfeeding and moving on to cows milk, which she utterly loves.

 

I has always thought that I would feed her myself for the 1^st year and then switch over to cows milk gradually in the whole spirit if baby led weaning. Things happened a little more abruptly than I thought but I do think moving onto drinking and eating from breastfeeding are quite intertwined in our case – I will try and explain.

 

Just before Christmas I started to get rubbed raw bits on my nipples which were not healing and getting slightly infected. (Nice yes I know) Breastfeeding was pretty painful but we persisted as I thought things would decrease naturally (which the feeds were) so I would just persist until the nipples healed and we wound down the breastfeeding. This was the situation for a about two weeks but things just got steadily worse and when Boomer bit me four times on hogmanay  I actually thought I was going to have to get my nipple sewed back on. On new years day I woke and decided that I would delay giving Boomer a feed until later to hep the healing, but later came and I couldn’t face it , and Boomer had been drinking cows milk all day and frankly didn’t seem that bothered.

 

So basically from then we’ve just stopped, she had been having cows milk for a while so to switch straight over I don’t think was really that hard on her. She doesn’t appear to want breastfed particularly and a snuggle and a drink seems to be an ok replacement.

 

This is why I think this was a natural conclusion, I think that my nipples were getting really damaged because Boomer had changed the way she breastfed because she was eating more. Whether her jaw muscles have changed or she has simply started to ‘forget’ how to suckle I don’t know. It wasn’t that she had more teeth she has had the same amount for the last few months. I really don’t think it was coincidence that these problems appeared around the time of her first birthday and that magically weaning point. I would be interesting the know if anybody else has noticed a similar change in feeding.

 

The main side effect of the sudden stop and not slow wind down is that my breasts have reached an engorged level only generally achieved through surgery and boy are they sore. It’s nearly a week and still the slightest knock is really painful. So If repeating the experience I would defiantly try and go for a controlled stop not an emergency one.

Or something like that. I could go and look at the pack but it's too far away...
Basically they are smaller than normal Shredded Wheat, so they're easy for the babies to hold onto. Obviously they're wheat, but salt-wise there's just a trace measurement so that's fine. I just microwave them for five seconds in a splash of cows' milk (because We Are One, y'know), so  they absorb the milk and soften a little. Babybear eats about fifteen of these in a sitting, she loves them with a banana. Good news, as Babybear was becoming - dare I say it? - a little bored with porridge pancakes. More to the point, they are pretty clean breakfast so essential for those morning when a quick getaway is required.


Post Script
Littleducks from Mumsnet has pointed out that it was she who told me about Mini Shreddies, and has therefore demanded due credit. (Diva.)

Just discovered that pomegranate segments ( the small wee bits inside -  segments, seeds dunno? )  make a great finger food. I think that pomegranates are just the best thing ever so I’m really glad that Boomer has also taken a liking to them. The only thing is that they are possibly the most expensive fruit  but worth it. Pomegranates are one of these things that you see listed as super foods , and I do think they are just super too. Apparenty they are a natural contraceptive too, don’t know what quantities you have to eat though – or maybe you don’t eat it ….must stop there.

 

It doesn’t mention pomegranates specifically in the allergy food guides so not sure if its one of these dangerous fruits or not – anybody got a clue?

I do it quite often, actually. Since becoming a parent myself I've found that my tolerance for cooing over other people's babies has risen considerably. (And it's a good way of keeping Babybear occupied - she finds babies fascinating and appears entirely unaware that she is one herself.)

Anyway, one thought just struck me but I'm unsure how to express it without causing offence. Here goes.

None of them exactly look like they're starving, do they?

I mean, it's the biggest worry about doing this BLW thing, isn't it? That they aren't going to get enough, that somehow we are depriving them if we don't spoon the food into their mouths. And yet one look at the photos on this blog confirm that simply isn't the case. It has made me giggle a bit, actually.


For the record, anyone who wants to put a photo up is welcome to send them to my email (press my name and you'll find it) and I'll stick them on for you with pleasure. More strange creatures for Babybear to stare at...



(Weird, I've also just noticed that some of our photos of the early months have dropped off... wonder if the folder has become too big? Will investigate further.)

Boomer has recently had a bit of a snuffle and bizarrely this has seemed to see an increase in her appetite. This seems to be contrary to everyone else’s experiences when their LO is under the weather.

 

Now it may be that I don’t think she was ever really that unwell, or it may have just coincided with a natural increase in her self weaning process. I think that latter is probably more likely. So for all you out there concerned about when their appetite will really kick in , Boomer is now 10 ½ mths and it has only just happened.

 

Boomer is still breastfed so I have no real way of checking her milk intake, but she still has about 4-5 feeds a day. I have however left her a couple of days from morning to night with someone else and she has just had food and water, no milk.

...not that we are the experts...
That honour belongs to a health visitor and researcher called Gill Rapley, who wrote a paper in 2003 which explored the age at which children can and should be weaned onto solid food.

The research found that six months was the optimum age, which is the time that mothers are now being told to wean by Health Visitors.

However, the distinct advantage of weaning at six months is that by that time our children are developmentally capable of feeding themselves - which means no more mush!


Anyway, as I said before, we are not experts in this area. What we are, however, is a pair of first-time mums feeling our way through the minefield that is encouraging our babies to have a healthy lifelong relationship with food. Our children (little darlings both) will be reporting from the front line over the next few months as we experiment with this Baby Led Weaning. (Although we'll be doing the bulk of the typing.)

My baby is nearly seven months old and already she has enjoyed fistfuls of broccoli, banana, green beans, red pepper, rice cakes and hummus, toast and cream cheese, mature cheddar, peaches, apricots, avocado, cucumber, pear, pasta with anchovies, chilli and lemon (her father...), pork fillet, roast chicken, roast potatoes, Jersey Royals, sweet potatoes, asparagus, melon and butternut squash. All of which she grabbed in her own little fist and ADORED feeding herself while her parents ate their own meals. I can't even begin to tell you how pleasant it is to eat in a restaurant with your Baby Led Weaning child chomping on a piece of bread and butter or a chunk of cucumber from your salad beside you.

Because it is a fairly new phenomenon we will hopefully be collating some information on Baby Led Weaning for you - personally I found it a nightmare trying to get hold of information on the subject, which is why I wanted to start this blog - but the truth is that the best way to start is to jump in. So join us, read how we are getting on and please, please comment on what we are doing. I'm probably going to be writing the bulk of the blog, principally because I suffer most from Runningoffatthemouth Disease. Morv is largely immune, but will be offering her salient and sensible opinions on the comments threads, as well as the odd (sometimes very odd) recipe.

If you have any questions we will do our best to answer them, but remember, we are just getting started here. If you have any better ideas or advice to pass on then please tell us.

Also, I know that I use a couple of websites and message groups already and you may have heard of the blog through them but I would really appreciate it if you could address any questions or comments only through this site as I really don't want anyone getting cross with me. I'm pretty sure you are required to register but I promise that we will take your privacy very seriously.

Good luck to anyone starting out with the Baby Led Weaning - so far it's been great fun for us and I hope it will be for you too.

Kindest regards,
Aitch and Babybear, and Morv and Boomer.

PS I am probably about to have a big fat falling out with 'Blogware', who are the people that supply the software for this site, so if anyone has bookmarked this page with the address that contains the word blogware could they please change it to www.babyledweaning.com? If everyone uses that from now on then we will keep our Google ranking (which is actually astonishingly high) when inevitably part company with them. Thanks so much, and thanks for coming to see the site, it means an awful lot.