I think the fact that mine has only just come back of maternity leave makes her worse as she is the authority on everything baby, she knows how she did/does it and that's the right way! Tinkerbelle has just come out of hospital - she had a cold that went out of control - the HV called me yesterday to see how she's doing and used it as a chance to ask about her eating! "Well actually, she's hardly eating anything at all right now, she's only just managing to breathe!"