like Rowan, i don't really pay attention to how much Babybear is eating, I just clear up the debris afterwards. it truthfully isn't about the amounts, but you know that already, you just have to believe it. as for the choking... what is DH's plan of action if the baby does choke, either on BLW food or purees? i'd be more interested in that, as there is still a choking risk with puree. as it happens i recommend every parent should do an infant resus class, not just if they plan to do BLW.