LOL at 'delusions of competency'. i'd agree with Lin about the hoiking out, to be honest. surely by the time it's in their mouths there's not problem? next time, try and leave it so you can see what happens. what about steamed carrot, have you given that a try? it's nice and soft and easy to manage. or Jersey Royal potatoes are in season at the moment, i remember they were a big favourite when we started off.