HI Hatty, although I sounds relaxed is has taken a while to get there ! In fact the reason I liked the baby led weaning appraoch was I was just so confused by all the different advice and this way allows me and my daughter just to go off and learn togther. Anyway there is a sort of pattern to our day and by the sounds of the times you have put for your feeding it is very similar to where you are now. Your idea of bf morning, after lunch, mid afternoon early tea and then bed sounds absolutly fine and very similar to how my days are (although I tend to feed Boomer before lunch - but I don't think there is any difference). You will know yourself when she is too tired / milk hungry to be bothered with the food and I'm sure the both of you will start to work out a routine.