I used to wear a nursing bra in bed at night but now I tend to sleep au naturel (is this too much information) however when Boomer was wee it was cold and it has been hot recently so thats kinda why the nursing bra hit the dust. I'm not convinced that they offer much support anyway. Unfortunatly I can't offer any advice about blw and childcare but it might be worthwhile having an informal meeting with your nursary to talk about your weaning decisions. You could always direct them to this blog for further information! Do you provide the food to the nursary or is there a set menu?