I had similar issues (still do sometimes) where nappy-changing can turn into a wrestling match. Can Babybear walk/stand well? Now that Lil Bean is really sturdy on her feet, I've found removing the nappy while she is standing up can help reduce the unwanted "redistribution" of its contents. Putting the nappy on while she's standing is not the easiest but much easier than putting it on a her when she's wriggling around and throwing a fit... My major BLW worries only start if I look on the net at sites that talk about nutrition for babies. I mean, am I supposed to be giving her vitamins? calcium supplements? Do any of you give them? I'd rather not but then worry that she's not getting all the vits and mins that she needs. Most days she eats tons of whatever is on offer but the worry wart in me starts to wonder if it's the right stuff...