i'm sure that'll be fine. It's the gist, i think, that's important in the long run, given that the aim of any parent weaning their child in whatever manner is that they grow up with a good relationship to food. if you're impressing on the nursery that you don't want them to make a big fuss about her eating then as far as i'm concerned that's in keeping with the spirit of BLW. at least they've had conversations with you and they know the general idea, imagine if she had a wee appetite and had been refusing purees from the beginning? that would be more frustrating for the staff i'd have thought, and more likely to go tits-up with a determined baby.