Following instruction from our esteemed leader, I am moving this here: If she won't have anything at all, I tend to offer something else. But I do go for something to replace the meal like bread and cheese. If she's had a go, then we move on to pudding. Then we wait until the next snack/meal. She did refuse to eat any lunch the other week (stuff I knew she really likes) and then got out of her highchair, saw a museli bar and shouted for it. She didn't get it and was very cross (tantrums here we come).