Another useful thread, this... P seems to be winding down her breastfeeding (she asks for 3/4 feeds a day but she's not really suckling, just chewing lightly on my nipples - youch - can't go on like this much longer). She's doing really well with her meals and snacks, and when I gave up feeding her at night she didn't complain after the first night, so I'm feeling ok about the prospect of actually weaning her - except that we still have the problem with dairy and her eczema. Think I'll try her with rice/oat milk as a snacktime/bedtime sort of drink and see how we go... (like Moomin, I'm uneasy about giving her any regular amount of soya milk).