Based purely on observation now, as I'm still a BLWer-in-waiting as Pudding approaches 21 weeks. My extremely neat freak spotless house ironing at midnight and cleaning even though she's got a paid cleaner mate has 3 kids who eat spotlessly then hold their hands up to mummy until a damp cloth is applied. On the other hand an extremely chaotic house is a tip toally disorganised mate has a kid who pebble dashes anything within hurling and smearing distance at every meal. (She once ruined a new rug at my place with cheese smearing antics. This was before I had a kid myself. Good job I'm not house proud and believe people are more important than things!) Sadly as my house teeters constantly on the brink of filthy midden I imagine that Pudding may end up to be more of a pebble-dash kid! Never mind, as long as she doesn't end up borderline eating disordered as I did due to food based traumas at 3 1/2 at the hands of private educators.